Glad you had a great time with Kids. Ive had a fantastic weekend in the sun with d8. Triggers get easier or they have for me anyway. I couldn't listen to nay music at first without (apart from my rave music ) it sending tears down my face. Couldn't watch certain TV programs, films or go to certain places. Over the last few months this has got easier. By no means gone but easier. Your initial strong emotions that make you do crazy things do die down and that is when you truly start detaching.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on