I know this is divorcing busting site but for me that doesn't mean I just sit patiently waiting for my wife to come back while she is out having the time of her life with OM. As it looks right now she is not interested in R and the way I feel at the moment im not interested either. Doesn't mean that wont change.
So im getting on with my own life which is at the end of the day what DB is.

I have no idea what the future holds. My wife may turn round in 2 years time and say lets work this out. Then again she may hand me divorce papers next week and get married to OM. Who knows??
What I do know is that i'll deal with issues as they come up and if that means I've been dating other women and then wife wants me back then I and she will have to deal with that.
What I wont do is put my life on hold any longer. Life is too short as it is.


Me:40 W:35
D:8
T:13 M:10
WAW: 7/14
PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months
Moved out and moved on