With regards to update- I would stay quiet. I would message him if absolutely necessary, and I found he would begin to message me first asking how baby is- and then how am I.
With regards to keeping the potential ow away from your s- I really don't know what the right answer is. I know I possibly came out like a huge b*tch as I told him straight she would be having nothing to do with our baby.


Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16