I don't see it as her trying to parent. I see a deep seated anger coming from her. It gets real ugly when she sees her mother and I even exchange two words. God forbid we interact like two adults carrying on a conversation. Yesterday I was setting up a computer for the ex. This can take time when you are removing programs, loading anti virus software, etc. Ex hung around rather than disappear as usual. We were carrying on a small conversation and ex was sharing things that were going on in her life. I felt this was good. Daughter hung around, kept interrupting to ask am I done yet, got nasty, told mom to shut up and go away, etc. I keep getting the distinct feeling that daughter is feeling that if we are going to be divorced that we should not interact. Kinda like if we are going to ruin her life then we should not be allowed around each other. She has also gotten nasty with her grandfather lately and he has noticed as well.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"