Thanks Job. That is pretty much what I said to them this morning when I was driving them back to their mom. That if anything was truly upsetting them or if s was in danger I needed to know. Otherwise we all need to work towards moving on and please don't share the details.

It was nice to hear them say how much calmer and happier things felt at my new place.

I feel so sad for all the kids affected by future exh actions. but I know there is nothing I can do to fix the relationship for the kids or help them regain any respect for their dad.

Ss 16 said he really isn't bothered by anything his dad says or does because he just doesn't care anymore.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15