We rent through h's employer. He said he would leave twice but never did. When I asked when it was happening he told me that he was advised not to. Once we are divorced I cannot live here. The housing is on campus. The campus where they both work. I can set a boundary that she not step foot in our home, but she never did anyway. As far as I know she has never been in our home except maybe to use the bathroom back when he used to throw a sports related bbq every year after graduation. I think I just need to leave. I just have to talk to the l about how to do that with the kids.
I hear him downstairs right now and it is taking all of my self control to not go down and start a conversation. He doesn't deserve my time or attention anymore.
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17