Its one of the better books I've read and I this thought her TED talks were good. I took a few really good points from it all and there's a lot of crossover with NMMNG.
What I took away is the subject of a much longer post buy long story short my avoidance of direct conflict is a symptom of the shame I carry for not believing im good enough.
Glad the book means something to you.
Have a great day
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress