Thanks for your insight. Especially the part about planning dates.
I have gone out of my way to be open and make it easier for him so the step back was confusing to me. I am not passive aggressive and I am able to be direct. I am just waiting for the opportunity. I wanted first to access the situation and reflect on the date. In honesty I have never had a man behave this way with me. I'm not sure what his deal is. I know ( not to sound vain) I am an attractive woman and I am in good shape. I was so aware of the mirroring that I was being open and trying to make it easier for him. There was a wall there. I felt it.
I hear you when it comes to friend advice. Lol I won't tell you what my friends have said. Lol I know this time that it's not me. I am not though willing to do all the work. That is a mistake I have made in the past.
I will update you. He has not contacted me today. I will not contact him. This time the balls in his court. ; )
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
