I'm just catching up on your thread. I've been pretty busy and not online as much anymore.
You sound like you are getting over the hump. I can tell you I never thought I would get to a place where I felt Meh instead of pain when it came to me ex. I am three yrs separated this August. This year has been the turning point for me. I have stopped waiting and moved forward in my life. What he says, does or is doesn't affect me like it did a year ago. You will get here too. My ex came by to pick up my SD the other night and hugged me hello and goodbye. I felt like I was greeting someone I used to know. It felt good to not feel anything more. I have started to date and I think this has helped me move past my marriage. Even if it doesn't last it doesn't matter. I have a life and I am making plans for my future.
You deserve happiness Mighty.....keep moving forward.
Big hugs
karma
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
