I'm sorry about what you're going through. You are getting incredible advice on here, and I would advise you to listen closely to Vanilla. She's right on the money.
My sitch is a cakewalk comparably, but one thing that drew my eye was how worried you were about being alone after 22 years together. I have been married for 23 years and feel the same fear. After being on here and DBing though, the fear is manageable and I'm actually beginning to believe I'll have a better life. You sound like a terrific mom and I think you'll find a way to help your sons even without your dad. A friend told me recently that as long as they have one together, compassionate parent they will get through anything. I believe this in your sons' cases too.
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M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
