Agree 100% with V! Codependency No More helped me really see how to DETACH!! First thing to take care of is YOU and your kids. Another one that helped me is Love Must Be Tough and when you finish DR it would REALLY help in your situation.

I tend to talk about what has worked for me when I post to others. It is a habit from AA. When we share in meetings, we always talk about what worked for us and hope the person listening picks up on it. I am a recovering alcoholic and have been sober 20 years now. I am familiar with addictions.

Me:44
EXW 44
Wonderful Children
M11, T14
BD 6/14
OM Confirmed
Divorce Final 2/25/16
"It works if you work it!"