Right, Cadet. It is counterintuitive for sure. I'd liken it to "Fake it till you make it". Its hard to exude the needed confidence at all times when going through a breakup. I know there are no guarantees, but the laughter we had and the love we shared seems to me like one day she is going to miss that a whole lot. True love is hard to find.
Me 39 waw(ww) 26 M 5 years ILYBINILWY No children, miscarriage 3/14 EA 11/2015, confirmed 4/2015, pa? Separated 2/2015 She files D 4/15/15 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me