WAS asked for divorce today.

[aNewGuy]

I guess what I'm getting at is that in my switch, everything I do seems to backfire. Nothing seems to be working. She is getting further and further away, at least it seems. It doesn't help that we work together and that she knows I don't want the divorce. I have made it clear that I don't want to go that way but she continues to move in that direction and two months now since separating, I feel hopeless in my own power to do anything to bring her home.