WAH - gone almost 1 year, still so hard.

[Zues126]

Stacey, I wish I could take some of the pain from your heart right now. I am so sorry.

I know others would say you've failed to detach, or that you need to grow if you're still clinging to an H that shows no interest. But while there's some truth to that, I can't help but admire your loyalty and the depth of your feelings.

I feel like I posted this exact same thing once before on another thread, but I'll say it again. If you were over him in 24 hours I'd call you heartless. I don't want to see you suffer forever, but I actually think it's inspiring that you cared that deeply.

It's like on DB it's a race to detach. And while I get that, I really do- I admire that you loved your H that much, and that you took your M that seriously.

Hopefully you can give yourself permission to let go now, and I will pray that you are given strength and comfort to ease your burden.