Short sharp shrift from 25 and dating does go against Db principles. for me getting attention from opposite sex has helped me move on and realise I'm worth more than what I've been handed for months even years. If I believed there was any chance of recon then I wouldn't get involved with anyone. as it stands for me I presume my wife is firmly still with OM. We are moving forward to sell our property and there has been no talk of recon or anything for 2 months. I'm not filing for divorce as yet as for one I don't have the funds to set it in motion. For two I'm just appreciating the relative calm for now. We could be in this sitch for a long time unless my wife moves it forwards. so does that mean I never see another woman until I'm divorced? I know people who have been separated for years. Does that mean they have to live like monks? Tricky one and does polarise opinion.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on