"versus somehow "calmly" "shutting her down" and "looking her in the eye and saying you don't control me" in a nice fashion. "

GB, Again, I don't know your story and how or if you saved your M, but in the time I've been here I haven't seen an instance where this hurt a situation.

"I think Defacto's doing a pretty good job of avoiding the bait and taking a stand for himself here and there without being antagonistic. "

Again, you get the feeling that what I stated was antagonistic. It wasn't. In fact, if he had allowed his W to call the shots and berate him at every opportunity, and the situation doesn't get better, it's time to do something different.

DeFacto, have you seen the list of the people who have saved their M's? The situation only started turning around after the LBS started to not care about what the WAS thought about.

Time to get your b@ll$ back buddy.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER