Journaling: Well, 3 hours of support group, and it was uncomfortable. Not because of discomfort about talking, but because the stance of the group was that regardless of what I did or did not do, nothing was my fault, and that I should divorce immediately, and sue for full custody.

Given my situation, that seems like a huge rush, and a huge risk. The fact that they jumped so readily to "fire first, fire hard" makes me think I should find another group.

Advice?

Me: 30, W: 29
S: 4
T: 14
M: 5
BD: March, 2015, ILYBNILWY, IDLY, Need Space
OM, EA/PA Discovered (drunken kissing, she says she stopped there? NOPE!): March 2015
S: April 25th, 2015