I calmly asked her if it was over in her head to just let me go and I would accept that and move on. She informs me that she does not no what she wants again and hates to go and decide on divorce and then regret it in three months.
You have it completely backward. The only chance in hades you stand with her is for you to dumpher......and dump her quick and hard enough to be effective.
I promise it is much more effective, in the long run, than what you are doing at the moment. But no games, you have to do it for real............and not to get a reaction from her.
She not only is wayward, but she's a serial cheater now. If you play the part of her victim, standing there and pleading for her to let you go.........she will kill you slowly before devouring you.
No speeches, no long talks, no grand announcements, b/c that will ruin the effect. Just do it. You do remember how, right?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
