It's very counter intuitive- but you have to put an act. Act like everything she does or doesn't do is just fine.

I know it's hard. You could literally spend every waking moment thinking about this.

Best advice I received when I was where you are- stay busy. Force it. Busy at home, out of the house. Do something, anything.

Separated and DB dropped 02/09/15

*I love you people.