H's MLC #9 Time To Focus on Me

[2BHappy]

So I did not expect a "test" of my new plans so very soon.

H advised me today that he might have a party for the Mayweather fight. He said he did not know if he felt like watching it with a bunch of people (talking about my friends who invited us over to watch). I ask him "won't you be at work" he said he is trying to work on that. And that SS's and one of H's good friends from out of town might come up to watch the fight with us.

I was thinking where did all this come from, when I invited him by text message he never replied.

S14 heard this conversation and said to me "why is dad getting the fight" he usually does not care about these fights?

I told S14 I had no idea and that now I would need to decide where to watch the fight...

S14 said to me, Mom you already have plans to watch with your friends, just because dad is thinking about getting the fight does not mean you have to change your plans"

OUT OF THE MOUTH OF BABES.

I told s14, it depends and I would make up my mind once H knows for sure what he plans to do. s14 told me "mom you always makes decisions choses based on what we need, he told me to watch the fight where I want to watch the fight", s14 told me Dad knew 2 weeks ago you planned to watch with friends, now he wants to make plans to watch at home. WOW WOW WOW...

Trying to look at this another way, true H usually cares nothing about watching the fights, so maybe he is doing this because he knows I enjoy watching them. OR maybe he just doing this to stop my plans for watching with friends.

At this point, I know I will have more fun watching with friends, since other women will also be there, women who enjoy the fights as much as me. here at home, there would be no women unless I invited some friends over. I do have a couple who was NOT going to the other friends house because they have large dogs.

Do I keep my org plans regardless of what H decides to do...decisions...decisions...

Now I will be more comfortable at home, and will not have to worry about juggling to see the TV, or have a good seat,,