Today, I continued with GAL. I woke up, took care of the kids, washed my car, went for a run, then went to the pet store (my kids want an aquarium).
I think my W stayed up late last night. She slept until 9:30AM, then stayed on the computer all morning. She has not given the kids any attention.
Even though I suspended service to her cell phone, I realized that she can still use it to some capacity. It's an iPhone. When she is connected to wifi, she can still text with iMessages to others who have an iPhone. She can also use the Internet.
I don't think the OM has an iPhone. In the past, when I saw her texting him the messages appeared in green. Green messages are standard text messages through your service plan, blue messages are iMessages which are free between iPhones. I know her sister and best friend have iPhones. She's been on her cell phone a lot today too.
My interactions with my W have been limited. When we speak, I treat her with respect but i keep it short... Conversations about the kids, dinner, etc. Nothing else. She looks angry and is the coldest I've ever seen her.
I think she is scrambling to find a job and exit plan. I can tell that she wants to leave now more than ever. I'm sure she will find some other way to talk to the OM, if she hasn't already.
