"This kind of debating with a wayward is completely unproductive. It's antagonistic."
Actually it's not. You're not yelling or being mad or nasty or angry or cold. It's pure confidence. You're not telling her what to do. You are stating it as a matter of fact.
In fact, that swagger and confidence is what got the OM your W. You are just establishing your boundary and it shows your WAS that you're on the path to walking away.
I don't know about Georgia Bulldog's story but doing this put me on the path to saving my M and many others.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.