You are absolutely right. He started buying comic books and action figurines. He was obsessed with his video games and would play until all hours of the night. I could have danced naked in front of the screen and he would have asked me to move out of the way. I tried staying involved by asking him about his games and going with him to the comic book stores. He pulled more and more away from me and lost himself to his fantasy world. One of the reasons I went on sick leave, besides my health was to work on our marriage. I was out of the house 50 - 60 hours a week for work. We never had time together. I thought this would give us the time to rekindle our marriage. As soon as I was home he pulled away even more. Only 3 days in he left. Mind you I asked him to leave. I was so angry that he wouldn't even try. In a way I feel I should have just left him alone, but that is what I did for the last year and that seemed to make it even worse. Damned if you do and damned if you don't. Now he has to grow up. He has to be responsible for his own business and his own bills. He has to grow up or hit rock bottom. Either way I can't help him.
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
