I will take more time to focus on me to basically ignore H issues as much as I can.
S14, job, my mom, friends and family are enough to keep me busy.
I do think I will join in for the bowling on a couple Monday's a month, and attend meetings with football club one Monday a month, my triggers tend to happen on Monday when H is home and on the weekends when I have more time on my hand.
So I will stay busy.
Came home today from hair apt, H said your hair looks good, you got it highlighted,,I was like yes last year.
H is being extra talkative today since I ignored his "before he goes to work call" yesterday. And keeping to myself as much as possible while home until he goes to work.
Anyway,,,focus on me, Come here to vent instead of eat, hopefully I can also help others as they deal with this mess.
Have a great weekend everyone.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
