Originally Posted By: Cadet

If he starts acting like a 9 or 10 year old then you know that he has gone back in time to work on this issue.
I see it happen here all the time.

So how long do you think it takes for a 9 year old to grow up?


Sorry to hijack for a minute this just caught me off guard. My W was emotionally abandoned as a young teenager by her parents and had to take care of herself and her younger siblings. Shes said when our sitch started she wanted to do something selfish and make herself happy for once, take care of herself instead of worry about everyone else. Close friend has said W looks like shes a young teenager with a massive crush on OM. I just never realized they could be connected so much.

Last edited by Fogg; 04/18/15 01:04 PM.
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