Tough night. So after all of the above said I was being a bully and being whiny and needy and he didnt have time to babysit me. He said I told him he was a bad dad. i said no I am just trying to stand up for myself because so far you are getting everything you want and not considering how your actions effect me and this familly.
He also keeps saying I didn't care about fixing our marriage until I found out he had someone else. Last week he said he would be willing to do some counseling to help us be able to communicate better and be productive especially where our kids are concerned. Now he says no I just need to go on my own....the OW did and it has helped her.
And of course he says he just can't talk to me it's not how OW talks to him "and yes she's perfect you could learn a lot from her!'"
For someone who has really had no consequences except his own guilt I don't understand why he is so angry all the time
