Hi ladies and gents, Thanks for saying hello and keeping up with me.
And thanks for the dating words of wisdom Mozza.
Turns out my time out of the dating pool may be having detrimental effects on my ability to understand how it works!
I thought the guy was supposed to chase the girl and I was supposed to sit back and wait. Turns out that maybe is not so much the case nowadays and I am supposed to be a bit more proactive. I have now heard from several friends what Mozza basically said, I should be giving myself a little push out of my sit-back-comfort-zone to let him know I am interested. Even though I am scared out of my wits.
I must say I have quite a few guys chasing after me and they are very persistent. (I am not interested in them at all) So I thought ..if a guy likes me, he will call and text me... a lot. Turns out only the weirdos call and text a lot with no encouragement from me. Who knew? hahaha.
So I am learning and trying to get out of my comfort zone.
What's the deal with the exH? Well, he's been texting me a bit, being friendly and hinting he wants to spend time together. Suddenly I don't care all that much. It's VERY nice not to care all that much. We'll see.
For those of you wondering what is going on with your wayward man, I read the other day that something like 90% of guys have regrets and wish they could go back to an old relationship while only 25% of women do. Interesting.
