I have read DR and DB twice and applying these techniques. When I carried my son up we calmly discussed our finances and how we would do this during our seperation. I calmly asked her if it was over in her head to just let me go and I would accept that and move on. She informs me that she does not no what she wants again and hates to go and decide on divorce and then regret it in three months. The only thing I can do is let her live her life without doing all the wrong moves which have stopped doing a couple of weeks ago. Does anyone have any other advice for me how can I turn this around to put the ball in my court just a little bit. It maybe to late to apply some of the plans in the DR book. She is a special case.