New to this. Need support. Separated.

[MrBond]

"I know this one all too well. I was just coming to terms with the personal hurt when I was clobbered with this. You just don't treat another human being like this I thought. Let alone the person you love/loved. It made me feel worthless."

Of course he didn't mention how he acted towards her which made her feel just as worthless.

Purehrt, can you detail your marital history? All I've seen is you concentrating on your H's infidelity. His addictions are a big thing, but we can't help with that. ONly with what you have control over.