"It is getting disturbing. She does nothing else. Rarely cleans the house, rarely does laundry and rarely does anything with her kids."

So? You can't control what she does. If that's her choice, well, then so be it.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER