Hi Pilot. Thanks for your response. I know the best course is not to confront her. Ultimately this is on my H. Plus, I'm not going to acknowledge her. She is a symptom not a cause.

I'm looking for the boundaries I need to set with H. I really struggle in that and am trying to change that.

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Cheers,
PureHrt
18 years married, 22 years together
Separated since Jan (2nd time in 3 years)
1 child