Wayward Wife and the Way of LRT

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Journaling:
So, W called me 5 times since last "conversation." I was at a baseball game so I let it go to voicemail. W calls again when I got home, thought maybe I could talk to kids around bedtime so I decide to answer.

W asks why I didn't answer her calls and that she has stopped by the house and I wasn't there. Told W I went out. W asked where. I told her I went to a baseball game.

W then hands phone to D4 for a second to say hi. When W takes phone, she asks me if I showed a picture of W to OM's W. I told W that I only showed OM's W the picture from the texts I discovered back in January. Apparently, OM's W knows about my W's cosmetic surgery and is trying to figure out how OM's W found out. (Obviously things are still brewing at OM's house)


Then W asks me again if I have anymore big surprises planned. I tell W that I don't but I tell W that she doesn't control what I do. Then W launches into why she just doesn't know why I did what I did. I tell W that I told OM's W because it was the moral thing to do. W then started comparing what I did to jihad.
She then launches into how I've ruined her life. I respond by saying that she needs to understand that her decisions had something to do with it too. W responds that she will do that when I do that too for my decisions.
(It was like she proofread Mrbond's message!)

W says that we were separated and I told her we could date other people. (This is funny because she's now changed the timeline of our separation to starting before the A was discovered. And, I never agreed to dating other people during separation. I only agreed for the separation to be on a trial basis and that we would NOT date other people. It wouldn't be worth it to remind her of these errors however.)

W then says she has shown so much restraint not telling others about the things I've done. And that W wouldn't want our kids to find out and look at me differently. I'm not sure how to respond so I essentially ignore this comment. (W has made numerous unfounded comments about me and has threatened to slander me and pursue full custody)

The. W asks if she has to worry about me with the kids. W says that a person close to me has concerns about my state of mind around the kids.

I tell W that the insinuation is ludicrous and she knows the answer to that.

I changed the conversation again to my excitement for spending time with S1 tomorrow. I thank W for remaining calm during conversation. I then tell W I will see her in the morning when I pick up S1 and to have a good night.