Marylov that is a rookie mistake I have made time and time again. I'm thinking wow I feel good, look good, feeling confident and in control. Let go of detachment for a moment with ex because I'm feeling so good....BANG! Contact with ex back to needing to buy tissues in bulk! The takeaway lesson for me, when I'm feeling good that's the time to keep feeling better, a stay the h*ll away from ex in any shape or form.