MCS

You know that the only true love is that channelled from your higher power?

It is not from another. It is from the self, what is resisted always persists. When we face down our pain, stop judging and controlling others then the space within us is filled with love.

Being alone is not being lonely, if you can reach a place where just being MCS is enough then the loneliness will go. Being ready to be with another in peace and because that other is ready to be love, is complete.

Like V you stand for yourself. To DB so that you can be worthy of the love that the higher power can give you. MCS you love your children unconditionally. I admire that, and I want to hear MCS say he loves himself and is a channel for that love.

WW will find her own way, infatuations last about 2 years generally and ironically EAs can last longer than PAs. WW reality is that there is no love channelled from an A. Especially not hers. As are about selfishness not love, an attempt to fill an emptiness that another can never fill. Not ever, we are empty because we fail to let the Higher Power work for us and in our hearts. An A is the antithesis of an open heart and a denial of love. An A is a betrayal of love, an M, a family and is a selfish act which creates pain. Pretence and lies go with an A or a proposed A. Your WW must be slowly dying inside as a result of it.

Let go of expectation of WW and let her be herself. To become.

We can stand and keep standing until that Higher Power has moved its way and we learn that which we need. There is no need to control or have self righteous anger as it replaces with tenderness, love detachment and serenity. Then that higher power says time to learn and move to a new place. The spirit grows becomes and changes.

Time is on your side MCS. It really is, by the time the day comes to love and be renewed the gift will be much greater.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 04/18/15 12:57 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW