Dating your spouse

[Marylov]

I had made so much progress with detaching, and I made the stupid mistake of letting the myself feel hope again. I tried to extend myself to him, and he has totally taken advantage of me yet again and shut me down. So here we go again. I had gotten to the point where I felt good, was happy, and didn't cry every day. Now I am crying every hour, so hurt and confused. I'm going to use this weekend to refocus and try to LET IT GO! I need to stop pursuing him bc it clearly just makes him feel in control and makes me feel like an idiot.