Thank you all again for taking time to help me. I appreciate it so much.
Since the talk this afternoon, she tried to argue with me several times about the the "marital issues" she claims led to her A. She has NOT tried to argued about the boundaries I set.
I remained calm and told her that it's never ok to have an A. I reiterated that I would no longer allow her to treat me and our marriage with blatant disrespect. I told her that if she didn't want to work on our marriage she was free to leave and should leave. To make a long story short, she said that she will not leave because she does not want to leave the kids and has no where to go. I told her that as long as she's at our marital home, I would not tolerate or support anything relating to her A.
I'll give the separate bank accounts some thought. I may want to speak with an attorney first.
Today has been a long day but a good day. I'm glad I started to take a stand!
