Has anyone an idea, why I am sometimes afraid of my w if she becomes angry? Many many men I know, can not stand their angry spouses. Is this normal for a man? And what are the females on this board thinking about it? Have you ever noticed you H or XH being afraid of your anger? And do women really favour men that can make a firm stand in the heat of an argument?
You are afraid because you have not detached from your W. You have become dependent on her and so you are at the whim of her emotions.
It's okay to be afraid. No one thinks any less of you for it. But you need to detach yourself from her and start your NG recovery.
