Thanks everyone. I picked up D4 from SIL. SIL and BIL both expressed disgust with STBX. It was a great discussion because I had been distancing from them. I felt that they had STBX's back and only believed her side of things. They don't and they are very against cheating. I hand plans to discuss things with them, SIL unloaded to me how upset she is by her sister's actions.

I told the truth. Nothing nasty or mean. Just the truth of what has happened since D-day.

I know they won't cast STBX out, I don't want them to. I'm glad they know the truth and I'm glad they feel disgusted by her actions.

Hanging out with the kids tonight. Trying to figure out how to deal with this on Sunday night.

Tenbook, our marriage is over. I have no R ideas or interest now and can't imagine them in the near future. My focus is going dark and selling the house. I am moving on. I feel no love for her anymore.

M:42 W:43
T:14 M:10
S:9 D:5
W filed 12/22/14
EA 12/31/14
PA 4/10/15
D final 5/13/15