My dearest Pink

Let us see what love is, what H and those in an A fail to understand. These are things that Pink understands.

Love is from our higher power and it is channelled through us
The A partner is not the 'one' , it is a fantasy
They chose OP to feel less alone but an A is a lonely place
Niceness, good looks are confused with romantic love
Once in the A they can't get out, they have jumped ship and its hard to accept a mistake
There are promises and sex but promises unfulfilled like living on ice cream
Their own desire forces an A for a while
The A partner expresses interest but tires
There is blind love an R which starts unhealthily and dies of sickness
They believe the A partner will behave decently even if they themselves are cheaters
Sex is mistaken for love
They stay in the A to save face
They hide their feelings and sadness from their A partner because of fear and they are inauthentic
They believe the A partner's lies even if they know the truth
They can not face the pain they cause
They want to keep their options open and eat cake
They do not accept responsibility but feel sorry for themselves for their dilemma


Dear Pink, you are between choices, learning about yourself, your role as mom and wife, about what you can do, who you are and making tough choices.

I am glad you let H feel his pain, did not comfort him with your love and body. These issues age these Hs and like my H become unattractive, aged and weary. Pink will be renewed. She lives in higher power with the love of herself, her God and her children. Pink is falling in love with herself. Dignity and self respect for Pink.

Whilst H is getting caught, lying and resisting. An A ultimately is as unsatisfying as a cold cup of coffee, the aroma of the Java is attractive and the coffee swirls with froth but the coffee grounds are unappealing and need discarding. That will be all that remains.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 04/17/15 11:37 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW