Originally Posted By: Pink17
I don't know if it is good or bad, but I stopped blaming myself as much and start seeing the damage that is being done by my irresponsible H.

Hi Toots!

You have been such a huge help to me and so many others. I can tell you are a wonderful woman and I think that Pink's attitude is how you should try to view your situation. Of course, it is never easy for us to stop blaming ourselves, but I feel this one is on your H.

Sounds like you coud use another (((((Toots)))))

Please take care. We are thinking about you. I will say a prayer for you tonight.

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15