[quote=Complex]Well. I did see her again and it was very pleasant. It's not like that this is sustainable tho ...very obvious that woman wants to get down my pants...... Gee, good thing your wife does not know or she'd say YOU are having an affair, right? I mean, it's hypocritical. Look how you describe HER actions and how you ignore your own. Weird to me.
I get that you are lonely and it's great for the ego but you are HERE on a Divorce Busting site, complaining about your wife's emotional affair and equating it to what, what you are doing? Good grief.
Setback today: W coming home from her grandma and finally found out that my parents leaked that she had an affair. They seemed to have said it in a way though that it sounded it was a PA, ("She has a lover") which is was not. So she was obviously upset. I tried not to argue, validate her feelings. But I also clearly stated that she DID have an A. EA, PA..doesn't matter. A is A.
2 points. 1) this is ^^ sheer hypocrisy on your part. Did you tell your wife or did you keep that to yourself? 2) do you think your condemnation helped your cause or hurt it?
She explained she still wants to get D. no surprise there.
All the people she is talking to are like "things happen"...wtf. What morally degraded bs are we living in? Everyone just seems to validate her. I just said "in my books it is not ok, that is not how this should work".
Considering that you are dating OW, how can you keep saying all this?
I mean, aren't You're doing more than she did? I mean she had feelings for OM but to your knowledge that was the extent of it (oh and she told you).
I get why you'd date but I don't get why you'd still complain about her FEELINGS for OM...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
