Never mind. W called me after work and told me she just wasn't going to go to the party. I let her talk about the situation a bit, W said she was having a panic attack and she just turned around and went back home. W said she bribed D4 with a slurpee.

I told W how excited I was to spend the day with S1 and I told that I would see her tomorrow. I end the call.
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15 minutes later, W calls back and asks me if I plan to do anymore crazy stuff. I ask W what she means and she refers again to me talking to OM's W. W says I'm responsible for her losing all her friends. Then she says I was responsible for her losing the only friend she had left (the OM?).
W says that she has nobody to talk to and nothing to do because of me.

W says I scared OM's W half to death because OM's W felt like I was a stalker.

W then says I was a crappy husband. I agree to this. Then W says that I've only gotten worse.

W then refers to this date again with another OM. And W says that there is not a chance we could ever get back together.

I then tell W that I need to go and will see her in the AM when I pick up S1. I disconnect the call.
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W then proceeds to text me...

"The most ironic thing is that you, Mr. Logical, wanted to "protect his family and his kids"...how noble...the only thing you've done is harm them by hurting me, spreading rumors, and acting like a crazy person.

I showed so much restraint with tarnishing your name but you just couldn't hold back. What a crappy thing to do. You are not a good person. I don't know who you are.

So please do me a favor, don't talk any more about me to ANYONE. Stop stalking people and acting crazy. I just want to raise the kids the best we can and get this divorce finalized so I can put you in the past.

Is that within your comprehension?"

Yikes! I didn't reply and don't plan to.


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15