She did some soul searching too for sure. Unfortunately in the wrong direction.
She's definitely more stable, little more open and nicer compared to a while ago.
I could see myself building a new R with her, yes. She tells me she doesn't love me anymore tho and there's a better match out there for both of us. Which for her seems ultimate and a deal breaker.
I recently really gave up reacting to her, I'm not even strategical much. I pretty much gave up doing anything for HER or our M. Feels like I let go, but it also feels ultimate.

Thank you Starsky! For helping and your bday wishes!

Last edited by Complex; 04/17/15 09:34 PM.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15