Mr. Bond, thank you for replying. Very thought provoking.

I asked her to leave the house the first time she didn't respect my boundaries.

After several discussion, crying from her, begging from the kids, I let her come back.

I don't know what to do now. I want to distance myself from her. I want to go dark. I need to go dark. I can't go dark when we live in the same house.

I want to be better about not letting her actions have an effect on me. It's hard. Wow is it hard.

She just sent me a couple of texts. The first text said, "I am having a breakdown. I can't handle anything. Take kids. whatever". Second text said "I will pay for you to live somewhere else and will forgo seeing him for 7 weeks. He already knows."

I'm not even sure what those mean or how to respond.. "Yay!" I'm not going to respond.

M:42 W:43
T:14 M:10
S:9 D:5
W filed 12/22/14
EA 12/31/14
PA 4/10/15
D final 5/13/15