"Then last week, I found all the FB chats she has been having with OM. It was clear that she did not respect ANYTHING about me or boundaries. She lied about not having sex, not going to see him, not texting him while I was in the house."
And so what are your consequences going to be?
"Every boundary was mocked by her."
Actually she's not mocking them. She can't give up what she's doing.
"I realized last week I have no control of this situation."
This is true and you shouldn't control the situation. You can only control yourself.
"She is gone and she will hurt me with no remorse."
This is a notion you're going to have to stop. She's not "hurting" you. Those feelings of hurt are what you do to yourself. She is living her life the way she wants to same like you and everyone else. In fact, she's not thinking about you but herself. Doesn't mean that she's intentionally hurting you.
"She will do what she wants to when she wants."
She has a right to just as you do.
So if you say she crossed YOUR boundary, then you need to implement what YOU feel is necessary. But it's not about you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
