Agree with MrBond on that. You are going to have to accept that your W may NEVER want to admit or discuss an A if she is having one. Even if you never find out and she says she wants to work on the M. Be patient. These things usually have a way of coming out. Work on yourself in the meantime. Try not to focus on her and any affair. The worse thing you can do is let your mind wander and create things based on things you are not positive about.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16