Okay, first off you're going to have to learn that you can't FORCE or TRICK someone into admitting something they don't want to admit.

You are going to have to get rid of that notion right off the bat. You can't control the actions of another. Have you read DB or DR?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER