As I stated in an earlier post, W wanted to leave back in January 2015. At that time, I told her that I wanted her to stay so we could work on our marriage. Of corse, she wanted no part of that. Anyway, she quickly realized that she had no way to provide for herself (she blames me for that). We don't have the finances to support two places to live. I then suggested if she really wanted to go, she could go stay with her family or the OM but she couldn't take the kids. She mainly stayed with me since then because she didn't want to leave the kids... And had no way to provide for herself. Months have past. She has occasionally looked for a job but is quickly discouraged at her prospects and stops. So she still has no way to provide for herself.
With this afternoons conversation, she seemed to be angry that she still did not have anywhere to go... but very content leaving. She correctly claims that leaving is what she wanted all along... She just expected that I would pay for it... I guess.
