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[Wonka]

Sorry you're here, AH. However, you will not find a more incredibly supportive group than DBers here.

Cadet, calling you. Would you please link Train's thread(s) here...or her last one? I think AH could use some guidance from Train's threads...especially when laying down the no talking about the OW boundary or texting OW in/around the house.

Trains Threads

AH, try to read up on Train's threads as much as you can for I do see parallels between your sitch and Train in how she navigated through her H's two affairs. They are now happily reconciled and have been piecing for the past year now. Train comes around occasionally.

Chin up...we're all here for you.