I also told her that if she used the house phone or the Internet to contact him, I would shut that off too.
She also talked about leaving to go back to her home town, where the OM lives and her family. She said it would be to stay with her parents... But we all know the truth. I told her that she was free to do what she wanted but I wasn't ok with her using one of our family vehicles to go see the OM. I told her that she would need to get money from OM or her family to do that. The money in our accounts is for family needs. I also told her that if she went to see the OM, when she returned, her things would be in bags in the garage, adding that she would no longer be welcome here.
I know I need to see an attorney soon but what are some of your thoughts... Legally she's right, the money is ours. How can I really enforce my boundaries? Creating another account seems like it would cause trouble if we got before a judge?
